"you cant change society from this fundemental level you have to work with what is already there" is a common response and the only response to when one is trying to find new methods of finding solutions that will make as many people as happy as possible, historically speaking society has changed itself unrecognizable many many times [https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wirtschaftswunder], sometimes slow and sometimes rapidly, sometimes it caused disaster and sometimes it caused prosperity, but this change always only happened because almost everyone could agree to change something, what is considered right or wrong or high value and low value doesnt just change from country to country but also often from family to family or friend group to friend group, and it does that because enough people agree to something being good and bad and suddenly it becomes good or bad, things that are considered extremely evil and unjust might be common practice in some other place in the world[https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Child_sacrifice_in_Uganda]